As a soul being, we are both spiritual AND physical.
Yes, we have chakras to clear, vibrations to uplift, ancestors + guides to communicate with, and meditations and visualizations to do, but we also have a physical life to attend to, as well.
Many spiritual seekers can focus so much on the things of the “spirit” that they neglect the things that they need to actually live a well-functioning human life.
Being a soul being means learning how to move in BOTH worlds - the physical, and the non-physical. Not either, or.
Let’s not be so heavenly minded, that we are no earthly good. ❤️ 🌍
You can NEVER be unworthy of what you want.
No matter what it is.
You are always worthy.
Always.
In all ways.
The missing link to receiving what you want is NOT for you to perform more, try harder, or do more. Because you cannot “earn” what is already yours. It has been given to YOU, and it is ONLY waiting for YOU to come into the energy that will allow you to receive it.
The energy of Love.
That’s it.
It’s that simple.
The more you love yourself, the more you place yourself in the state of receiving, so the more you’ll start receiving what you authentically want.
It’s not about “deserve.”
It’s about worthiness, and feeling the truth of your own. ❤️
The root word of trauma is a Greek word that means “wound.”
From the soul’s perspective, the real wound (trauma) is disconnection.
It is being disconnected from the truth and energy of who we really are: LOVE.
While there are many modalities to heal trauma, the true purpose of healing trauma is to reconnect ourselves to ourselves - to the truth and natural energy of our being. So that we can live our lives from this truth and energy - lives of wholeness, and wellbeing, and joy.
Lives for which our soul incarnated here to live, in the first place.
For all the healing I’ve done, being more reconnected to the truth and energy of Love has been the result. And living a life that I love, has been the reward.
I’m often asked by clients: “What’s my purpose here?”
And no matter who they are, what gender or sexuality they are, what race or color, or economic status or nationality, my response is the same:
To expand who you truly are. To grow.
This is the life purpose of the soul.
This is the reason the soul incarnates here.
And once you understand that as a soul, you are Love Energy incarnate, you understand that your purpose is simply to be the Love that you are, and to do things (thoughts, behaviors and lifestyles) thst help you nourish this feeling of love within you so that it EXPANDS.
You are to become a bigger version of Love here.
That’s the entire point.
It’s not some job, or career like we’ve been mostly taught. It’s to grow on the planet the Love that we are.
Why?
Because you are intrinsically connected to The Universe - you are each other. So you’re expansion expands The Universe as a whole.
Yep. You’re THAT important.
So the biggest thing you can do to start living your purpose is STOP holding onto the belief and behavioral patterns, and STOP living the lifestyle that keeps you from feeling + expanding the vibrations of Love: worthiness, peace, freedom, empowerment and joy.
Your purpose is to feel MORE like these, and to release whatever is making you feel less like these. Less like Love.
Become more Love, not less.
This is the entire point.
And learning how to wholly love yourself is how you fulfill it. ❤️
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One of the things I learned from crossing over to The Other Side during my Near Death Experience in 2005 is what Love actually feels like. What it’s made of.
The Other Side is the dimension of Unconditional Love. It is the dimension of the soul. It is the dimension of God.
And that feels like worthiness, like freedom, like peace, like joy, like empowerment.
It feels like well-being.
Knowing this has changed how I see, practice and teach self-love. It’s not just about self-care, but more about thinking thoughts, eliciting behaviors, AND living a lifestyle that allows us to FEEL + live from these feelings. That allows us to feel + live from our soul, Love, GOD.
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I’ve spent most of today cooking, walking in nature, and spending time in the home of old friends reminiscing on childhood times, laughing immensely, and eating good, good food.
So this post is a little late, but nonetheless from the heart. I give thanks for it all. Including you. ❤️
However you celebrate (or don’t) Thanksgiving, know that you are loved, you are enough, and The Universe itself gives thanks for the very creation of YOU.
What we’re not taught often is that the path to healing our bodies is to heal ourselves. That the more healthy and well we ourselves become, the more healthy and well our bodies become.
Our internal state of being directly influenced what our external state of being is.
The vibration of joy is an energetic nutrient that helps feed and expand the essence of our soul. And just like we understand that we must eat nutritious food everyday to support + expand the strength and wellness of our physical body, we must also begin to understand that we must eat joy everyday, to do the same.
For our physical body CANNOT create or sustain good health when our soul is starved.
So we must eat joy everyday, too.
That can mean doing things that are fun for us, having conversations with people we love that make us laugh and giggle, working on something we’re very passionate about, doing things that feel satisfying and fulfilling (like for me - writing poetry, taking walks by the water, teaching), writing a list of things we’re grateful for + appreciative of in our life, thinking thoughts that inspire and uplift us, etc.
As soul beings, we need joy to be well.
We must do something (even if it’s a small thing), everyday, to feed our sense of joy.
Today, we entered a new month, whose core and influential energy is all about gratitude.
One BIG way to get in alignment with this energy, and to let it elevate you to a more delicious life experience, is to be grateful for your body.
To stop trying to fix it, change it, edit it, all in the effort to appear more fuckable to someone else.
This very action stems from an often unaware root vibration of shame. From a feeling that something is wrong with our body, as it is, and that we will not receive the love we desire as long as it is.
But this is BULLSHIT.
Your body is beautiful, lovable and desirable, as it is. It does not need to change, in any way, in order to be so.
The only thing that needs to change is you believing + feeling this yourself.
Because once you do, you emit the vibration worthiness, which is highly attractive frequency.
We are all drawn to worthiness because it is the truth
of our soul. And anyone who who embody a their soul’s truth will draw people to them.
Why?
Because being at home in our truth is what EVERYONE of us wants most, even if we’re not aware of it.
Often, when someone passes who you had a difficult relationship with while they were living (especially if they were a family member), that person becomes one of your Guides when they cross over. There are several reasons for this, but the main one is so that they can help restore the balance of Unconditional Love that flows between you, because you are part of each other. ALL SOULS BECOME THE WHOLENESS OF UNCONDITIONAL LOVE WHEN THEY CROSS OVER. And the want a pure channel of that Energy to flow between the two of you. So one of the reasons you may find it difficult in your life to hear your Guides is because you still hold resentment for that person. Guides speak from the frequency of Love, and the more you embody this frequency yourself, the more you begin to hear them, and receive clearer guidance from them. But if you’re angry at them still, you aren’t at a vibration that will allow you to receive their guidance well, if at all.
This is one of the reasons learning to forgive the people who hurt you in your past who have since died is beneficial to YOU. Very, very few people teach this, but it is a deep spiritual reality.
“You waste so much energy on trying to be “better.” But if you’d make this small shift you’d receive energy, instead, plus everything else you want.
Instead of trying to be better, focus on feeling more lovable today.
How would you behave if you knew you were deeply loved? If you knew you were already deeply deserving and worthy? How would you behave if you knew you were already beautiful and deeply desired?
Ask yourself these questions today, and watch how their answers change what you’ve been focusing on, and trying to do.
Behave like you’re loved. It’s the key to releasing all that stress and pushing you’ve been trying to do.
You have nothing more to DO, and everything more to RECEIVE.
Receiving isn’t about your action, though you’ve been taught ad naseum that it is; it’s about you holding an energy that says I am deeply loved and already worthy. And then the entire Universe will open up to prove this to you. You don’t have to make it prove it to you, you have to relax into your worthiness, and let it.
There is nothing more to do but that - relax into your worthiness.”
[originally channeled by Jerome Braggs on October 27, 2021]
During my NDE, Source told me that “You know a lot about how to try and force, and push and control things to make Life be good to you. Butyou don’t know shit about how to let Life be good to you.”
And that it wants to. That Life was literally created to be very good to me, so I didn’t have to force it, I just had to “let it.”
It took me years to learn how to “let Life be good to me.”
And the key to this lesson was understanding that Life Loves ME.
To understand and feel that I am deeply and unconditionally loved by Life, itself.
Once I understood this + believed it, I relaxed.
My energy softened, I let go of control and trusted the flow of life, instead. I surrendered and expected good to come to me, even if I couldn’t see in the moment how it was going to come. I felt safe, because I finally understood Life wasn’t against me, or out to get me, or trying to harm me, in any way.
I started seeing challenging events that arose in my life for what they truly were: messages and opportunities for me to love myself more by becoming + expressing more of who I authentically am, and becoming clearer on what I actually want for myself.
The entire game/experience of my life transformed.
It became easier, safer, and magical.
It became more delicious.
I truly believe one of the most healing affirmations we can work with + beliefs we can embody is: “Life loves ME.”
Once I began to understand this, I knew I was healing, because Life began proving it to me around every corner.