You are Love, here to experience joy and fulfillment. So work in your passions, spend more time engaging in your hobbbies, do more of what feels fun + adventurous + pleasurable, prioritize what makes you feel alive and grateful to be alive.
Fulfillment is the key to living a life you love.
Living a life you love is the purpose for being here.
As soul beings, we are meant to manifest our desires and receive the kind of experiences we really want.
But my understanding of manifestation changed during my NDE when Source told me that I didn’t have to try and “make” life be good to me, but instead “LET IT,” because that’s what it wanted to do.
That Life was designed to be good to us, because it loves us.
Most of what I see in our manifestation efforts and teachings comes from a belief that we have to “make life be good to us.” And under this belief, is the even deeper and more dangerous belief that we must do so because Life doesn’t already love us.
But this is false.
We are loved by Life, unconditionally.
Which means we don’t have to trick life into giving us our dreams, our yearnings, our desires. Life already wants us to have it, AND has given it.
Because we are loved, so nothing is withheld from us.
We just have to be the right energetic/vibrational container to receive it.
And feeling unworthy, and not holding an internal energy of trust, distorts our energy field into something that cannot receive well.
Because the receiving energy is one of peace, one of positive expectation, one of feeling worthy and loved.
Because this energy state is the frequency of our Soul.
It is our true essence, our natural state.
It is home.
The Universe sends all our good to our home address. But if we are not home, we cannot receive it.
But the moment we do come home, we receive, and more than we could have ever imagined or forced before.
Just come home.
And discover all the good that’s been awaiting you there.
You deserve well-being. To be happy, to be healthy, to live a good/delicious life. Being truthful with yourself, and in your life, is part of how you get there. Being dishonest is how you keep yourself from it. ❤️
Here’s a law of this Universe that not many people speak about, or understand:
What you offer the energy of Love to heals and flourishes , but what you withhold the energy of Love from sickens and worsens.
If you want something in your life, or in your body, to heal + flourish, you MUST discover how to shower that thing with Love. To view it with love, to treat it with love, to appreciate + accept + nourish it. To cease to have an adversarial relationship with it in any way.
Because ONLY Love Energy heals and flourishes things.
Why? Because Love Energy is Source/God Energy. It is the energy of creation. NOTHING can heal or flourish without it.
So what we withhold Love Energy from - intentionally or unintentionally - we make worse, and less well.
This is true for our lives, and our bodies.
This is why you can’t heal a body you hate. You can’t truly heal a disease by going to war against it or rejecting some aspect of it. It’s why when we take that approach, if we do rid ourselves of the disease, it almost always comes back.
This is why one of the most effective ways to heal an addiction is to offer yourself compassion and understanding and acceptance, rather than judgement and criticism and shame.
Offering Love is medicine.
Withholding Love is illness.
As a soul being, Love is not your birthright, because you are Love itself. It’s not your right, it’s your identity. Your birthright is to be who you really are + to live a life that supports and nourishes that.
As human beings, we receive so many external messages that counter the truth of our soul.
That actually goes against how life here in this dimension is actually SUPPOSED to work.
“Life supposed to be hard.”
“Healing is hard and painful.”
“Pain teaches you more than joy ever could.”
And the more we hear these messages, the more they become our own internal narratives - our own personal truths - that become the foundations from which we manifest our realities. Realities of struggle, pain, and in unhappiness.
If you’re currently living such a reality, it’s not your fault why those narratives that created that life for you got implanted into your consciousness, BUT IT IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY to no longer feed them.
Whatever we feed in our consciousness grows and manifests more like itself, but whatever we don’t feed in our consciousness starves, and stops manifesting more like itself in our lives.
A huge act of self-love is to tell ourselves the truth of our soul. The stories and narratives and thoughts that uplift us, that make us feel hopeful + excited, that allow us to manifest lives that feel good + nourish the energy of who we truly are.
“A delicious life is possible for me.”
“My healing journey doesn’t have to be hard or painful. I can heal with ease”
“I can grow through joy as well, and I’m willing to choose that path for myself now.”
These are the things that our soul knows, because these are the truths of Love. They are loving thoughts.
Those other thoughts are unloving, and only manifest for us lives where we feel less loved.
Leave them alone, and start feeding the loving thoughts, and watch what kind of life experience you manifest from those.
Hint: It’s going to be much more delicious. Cause love only manifests delicious things.
That’s what people do: people. And part of peopling is to judge and compare and criticize. It’s just part of the job of being the people.
But it’s not YOUR job.
Your job is to be yourself, and to live the life you truly want - the one that is worthy of all of your greatest joy, and your biggest smiles, and your most delicious memories. You’ve got to live the life you really want. And you can’t do that if you’re stuck worrying about people out there peopling. Let them handle the judgment and the criticism, and you get busy handling the joy and the living your truth, and the doing what you really want to do, how you really want to do it.
Your soul didn’t come here to be them; it came here to be YOU. And listening to them is the surest way to assure you never get to be YOU.
And also…judging and criticizing YOURSELF is also the surest way to assure you never get to be YOU. So let that pattern go, too.
Being YOU (without all that judgment and criticism) is the highest act of self-love.
P.S. I’m taking my own advice here, too. Just so you know you’re not alone in this. 😉
For times when you (or I) forget that The Universe loves us already, unconditionally, so we don’t have to change anything about ourselves to receive our good in any form, other than our ability to remember this. ❤️ #jeromebraggsquotes...
MONDAY MORNING MESSAGE:
Their opinion IS NOT your guidance system. Your own intuition is.
Because when we make choices for ourselves based on what someone else will think, we end up making a choice that guides us towards meeting/serving the needs + desires of someone else, and away from meeting/serving our own desires + needs.
And nothing healthy or delicious comes from this.. This is how we develop + operate from the toxic pattern of “people-pleasing.”
Your intuition (the wisdom of your soul) knows what’s best for you. It’s trying to lead you towards what will make you more happy and healthy (instead of less so).
Listen to it.
This doesn’t mean you’ll never receive advice from anyone else, but that it won’t be what you seek to consult first. You seek to hear what your intuition says first, then you may seek advice, and if that advice is not in alignment with your inner truth, YOU ALWAYS CHOOSE TO FOLLOW WHAT YOUR INTUITION SAYS.
Intuition over external opinions.
This is how you get your needs met, and become guided to greater happiness and health.
When we love ourselves, we feel good about ourselves, we feel a deep sense of appreciation + acceptance + trust for ourselves, and we feel free, happy, and held. AND, we move through the world making choices, eliciting behaviors, and setting boundaries that help support + honor + nourish those feelings within us throughout our day-to-day life, instead of diminishing and depleting them.
Loving ourselves is not just about feeling good; it’s also about living our lives in such a way that supports, protects and nourishes that “good feeling” within us.