Divine Ones, let’s talk about this concept:
“you attract who you are, not what you want.”
I’d like to clarify something around it, because I’ve noticed a lot of people have resistance to it. The fact that you’re such a nice and sweet and kind person but still attract assholes and abusers into your life doesn’t seem to match this statement, or make sense to you. However, your behavior IS NOT who you are. This is where the disconnect and the resistance is coming in.
You are saying: “I’m a ‘good’ person, but I attract such ‘bad’ people.” But you’re basing your attraction on your behavior, and not who you’re being. Your beliefs and your vibration is who you are. This is what makes up your energy – your state of being – and your state of being is responsible for who shows up in your life, and how they behave once they get there.
If you don’t believe/feel that you are enough, then you’re not going to attract people who treat you that way, no matter what behaviors you exhibit. If you don’t believe/feel you are wholly safe in this world, you are not going to attract someone that makes you feel wholly safe. If you don’t fully trust yourself or life, then you’re not going to attract someone who is wholly trustworthy. If you’re not truly happy and living a joyful life, you’re not going to attract someone who nourishes your happiness, and adds to your truly happy life.
Who shows up in your life has to reflect who you are in some way, sooner or later.
And even if you force someone into your life that doesn’t match your state of being, they won’t be able to stay in your life for very long.
Like attracts like. Unlike repels each other.
So yes, you attract who you are.
Or better said, you attract a reflection of who you’re being.
And the good news about that is that you can always change who you’re being. Beliefs and vibration are changeable. Always. They can get better, or they can get worse. You have a choice.
So, if you want to attract better and live better, you have to believe and FEEL better. And to simplify it even further, you have to get your beliefs and feelings more in alignment with LOVE – with the truth and vibration of Love. The closer you get to feeling/thinking Love, the more you’ll manifest relationships and experiences that are a reflection of Love, and make you feel more Loved.
As within, so without.
On all things.
So if there’s Love within,
there must be Love without.
On ALL things.
So BE more Love, and you’ll attract more Love. Don’t, and you won’t. Not because you don’t deserve (you always deserve MORE Love, not less), but because what comes can only reflect the frequency you’re holding within you.
Be more Love to get more Love.
Hope this clears it up.
[P.S. Love Frequency/Vibration is who you actually are. You are Love Frequency in human form. So in essence, the more you begin to think/feel like who you truly are, the more you begin to manifest what is truly yours, and what truly nourishes who you actually are.]